Wednesday, September 17, 2025

Leta Zeta

 

It has not been an exciting two days for me. Yesterday I had asked for a substitute for Adoration, since they said I shouldn't drive for 24 hours, but then they said, "Yeah, you can drive." I worked from home (but remember nothing about it, so here's hoping I didn't royally screw something up), and by the end of the day I was like, "Nah, I'm not making it to Adoration." They prescribed nothing for me post-surgery, no antibiotics and no fancy painkillers, so I've just been alternating Tylenol and ibuprofen, and that only works for so long. (Especially the Tylenol.) I did manage to lead Night Prayer. Monday night I was weirdly hoarse, besides being exhausted, so I skipped Night Prayer. Did they have to intubate me? They didn't say anything about that, but today I looked at my discharge instructions online and noticed something that I hadn't seen on the paper version: they said to sleep sitting up or on my side because if I slept on my back, I could DIE. Travalon says he's pretty sure I slept on my side Monday night, and clearly I didn't die, so it's all good, but yikes!

Today I felt very lightheaded and worked from home. I did get a lot done at work, and it's probably higher quality than whatever I did yesterday. There were two things going on tonight, a Halfway to St. Paddy's Day Hooley and a ukulele strum, but I didn't do either one. Travalon and I did take a very gentle walk on Governor's Island, and I took another walk outside later, but boy is it hot out! Tomorrow should be better (judging by when I had the same surgery eight years ago, but then again I was eight years younger and more resilient), so I fully plan to be on campus. 

I am alarmed by how all the comedians who mock Dear Leader are getting canceled, first my guy Colbert and now Jimmy Kimmel. (As someone said, "Silly Jimmy, you should have just said we should kill all the homeless and then you wouldn't have been fired," like that idiot at FAUX News who somehow still has a job.) Silencing dissenting voices is right from the fascist playbook, and then people who support Dear Leader are all like, "I never see you anymore. Why don't you come over? I have lawn darts." Yes, and you also support this regime. Someday these people will be on the wrong side of history, but it sucks living through it. Now I know how the White Rose people felt. Or as this German guy posted, "Please explain this to me - a Republican shot another Republican, and now all the Republicans want to kill the Democrats?" They were just looking for some excuse anyway. Don't sit here and "other" me and say all my kind are possessed by Satan and should all be in jail and then wonder why I don't want to play lawn darts with you. Get real. I thought their side was the one that supposedly loved free speech and hated cancel culture, but we can see what a lie that was!


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Monday, September 15, 2025

I Survived Surgery

 

I didn't do too much today, partly because I was fasting and partly because I had to scrub myself last night and then again this morning, so it seemed ill-advised to take a hike at Governor's Island, which is so dirty that I always have to wash my feet afterwards. Or maybe it didn't matter, because they still made me scrub myself down AGAIN when I got to the surgical suite. Anyway, the surgery went smoothly, I don't remember anything about it, and now I'm struggling to stay awake. Yes, I did skip the Moldy Jam jam tonight.

I do have big DuoLingo news, as promised yesterday:


Wow! That's a long time I've been doing this app every day! 

I don't have much to say about today, but people are sending me photos. My drumming buddy sent me this cool photo from harvesting wild rice yesterday.


That's in Rhinelander. Seabird sent me a couple of photos of musical instruments in the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City.



I want to play them all! But not, you know, tonight. Think I'm going to crawl into bed without showering, since I've already scrubbed every germ possible off myself in the last 24 hours.



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Sunday, September 14, 2025

Jilly Moose's Landmark Birthday Party

 

Sorry for the long silence. Thursday I worked on campus and then had a Union meeting. Travalon picked me up, and then we went to St. Charles Station for their corn meal. The first course was elote, or street corn, then the next was corn chowder, then the biggest pork chop I'd ever seen with corn and mashed potatoes and greens, and then a corn cake for dessert with horchata whipped cream. Travalon just got the street corn and his favorite shrimp and grits, but he helped me eat all the other courses, and we brought most of the pork chop and some of the dessert home.

Friday I worked from home, then Travalon and I went to Breese Stevens Field to see Weird Al Yankovic. It was just as entertaining as you'd imagine, with lots of costume changes and a polka medley of recent hits and even some songs I'd forgotten about, like "Word Crimes." I loved the start with a power point song using business buzzwords, and the encore was a song about Star Wars set to "American Pie," followed by another song about Star Wars (Yoda, specifically) set to "Lola." So much fun!

Yesterday Travalon and I walked on Governor's Island, then we ran to the co-op, and that reminded us that the North Side Festival was going on, so we checked it out. We got gift bags with coffee and hot chocolate (yay!) and big jars of sauerkraut (huh?), and other random stuff like lip balm and, very helpfully, a can of sparkling water. We couldn't find the stand with the amazing lamb kebabs, but we found another one with beef and shrimp kebabs, and we already had a beverage. We bought a little stuffed guinea pig for us and a tie-dyed T-shirt for me. Then we drove to a farm outside of Verona for the Brazilian party, because I'd gotten an email saying the bluegrass band some of them play in would be playing at three. That turned out to be not completely true (or true at all), but they did start playing before 4:30. Not too many people were there at first, and Travalon wondered how they all knew that the email wasn't totally accurate.

We had to head back to Madison for my work picnic, where we sat by ourselves and only my former boss and one faculty member and her husband and very fluffy dog really interacted with us. None of the other support staff ever come, and I feel very awkward there, but my (former) boss begged me to come. For some reason our chair thinks we should name the new fridge arriving for the break room on our floor on Wednesday, since they named the fridge on the Slavic floor after him, so I suggested Nat King Cool, and Travalon suggested Rita Coolfridge. It's really supposed to be a contest for the grad students, but this has inspired us to name our own relatively new fridge Calvin Coolfridge. 

After we felt like we'd put in a sufficient amount of time (around an hour) at the work picnic, Travalon and I headed back to the Brazilian party, where we hung out with the woman from my class mentioned previously on this blog who looks like she could survive three years in the wilderness, and her equally rugged husband. I wasn't far off, because they are wild animal rehabilitators, and she has had a fascinating life sailing on a research yacht north of the Arctic Circle, among other things. I was still full from the work picnic, and Travalon had to wait several hours to eat again because of an antibiotic, so we just watched the Brazilian dancers in a barn and listened to the steel drum band. The other student and I tried to swing on a tire swing when the children at the party tired of it, but we couldn't get it to spin like they did, so my buddy tried something that caused us both to fall off, but in a funny way, not like a dangerous way. We gave up, and besides it was close to the time that the Brazilian drums were going to lead us down to the beautiful, enormous bonfire.


We enjoyed it for a little bit, but it was VERY hot near the bonfire, so Travalon and I went back up the hill to the barn and finally tried some of the food everyone had brought. Then the Brazilian drums came back up the hill and performed right in front of us. My buddy and her husband had to leave because today they were collecting wild rice in Rhinelander, but Travalon and I stayed to hear a few songs by the bar samba band we often listen to... and really, the entire reason we were there, because it was when I asked the guy playing the little instrument that looks like a ukulele about it, he told me about taking the drumming lessons, which seem to come with lots of parties. It was late, so we didn't stay for their whole set, and the party was scheduled to go on to at least midnight, but we're old and decided 10:30 was a reasonable time to leave.

This morning we had to rush from Mass on the far east side of town to the house where Jilly Moose's landmark birthday party was being held in the shady yard. Lots of people were there, including her parents, some Night Prayer regulars, Rich, Kathbert, Cecil Markovitch, R-Van the Terrible, and the Dairyman's Daughter came late because she'd been out of town most of the weekend. The only scheduled event was telling a memory about Jilly Moose, so I said we'd invented a dance called the Extraterrestrial: "Toe! Knee! Togo! Togo! Togo!" Then everyone asked for a demonstration. Rich, Kathbert, and I played a rousing game of horse shoes, and I think I won, but not one of us got the horse shoe around the post. That was after lunch, and our game was interrupted when we sang "Happy Birthday" to the birthday girl and then all had cake. There was leftover ice cream, so I made "affogatos" for Travalon and me by putting ice cream in cups and pouring the canned cold brew coffee over it. Jilly Moose got some fun cards and presents, but we had already given her the present of a Betty Lou Cruise. Alas, they are no more... at least for now. I keep hoping Captain Rob will buy the boats and start them up again.

In the evening, on the way to band practice, we saw this sunset:


Our fearless leader couldn't be there, but the rest of us were there. The bass player hadn't brought her bass, only her fiddle, and she had even sent me an email saying bring my fiddle, but she sent it to my work email so of course I didn't see it. (I don't check that on weekends!) I brought the mandolin, so I played chords, and our bass player played piano some of the time. It was so much fun! The fiddler who hosted us has a three-year-old boy who is adorable, and he happily tooted his "piano horn" alongside us. His mom says he looks forward to our visits all week. Nothing like having a fan club!

I have some exciting DuoLingo news:


And also:


Tomorrow I will hit a really big landmark, so stay tuned for that.


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Wednesday, September 10, 2025

Another Political Assassination

 

Today I went to Seabird's new office in my building, and one of her officemates had made cookies because tomorrow is another office mate's birthday. Apparently it was his first birthday when the terrorist attack happened - now I feel old. Seabird and I did walk at lunch, but I was sore and had to take the bus for the second half. I can't take ibuprofen before my procedure on Monday; I can take acetaminophen, and I did, but it never does anything. It would have to happen that my back hurts the one week I can't do anything about it, since I rarely take ibuprofen. Wonder what I did to it?

In the afternoon we had our big department meeting with everyone in person for the first time since the pandemic. We've been having hybrid meetings for years, so some faculty were grumbling about having to be in person. (We staff members have been in person since we could be.) One of the grad students told me that Charlie Kirk had been shot, and while I am no fan of the man, I was horrified. Now rumors are flying about the person who did it, but nobody has been caught, so they are just rumors. I find it rather disingenuous that right-wingers are accusing leftists of doing this, after years of saying leftists are gun-hating pacifist wimps. So which is it? I have my own opinions about who would have the most to gain from this, and it isn't the Left, but I will wait to see if they find the killer and learn a motive. All this political violence is terrifying, and from what I've seen the people on the left are horrified, much more so than the people on the right were when that legislator from Minnesota was assassinated along with her husband. It is a bit haunting to hear Charlie Kirk say not too long ago that a few gun deaths are the price we have to pay as a society for our right to own guns - I suppose he never thought he'd be one of those deaths, but violent rhetoric begets violence. Where does this all end? Nowhere good, I'm afraid.


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Tuesday, September 9, 2025

Photos of Travalon's Ramblings

 

Yesterday I worked on campus and met the Professor Formerly Known as Lute Player for lunch. In the afternoon I went to my first Academic Staff Assembly meeting. It was more high-tech than the University Staff Congress; for example, we had to swipe our ID card to sign in, whereas the other one just had a piece of paper with your district number on it, and if that piece of paper was missing, it was assumed that you had taken it. That's how they took attendance. I was there for two reasons: the chairs of the committee I was on to do a report on ageism in the university gave their presentation of our final report, and I volunteered to be the alternate for my district, since we have a representative but no alternate. The Assembly seems more female and clean-cut than the Congress, and the weird thing is that their executive committee sat at the front, facing us like a row of mean girls in the high school cafeteria. There were also a lot more of them than there were on the Central Committee, of which I was Vice Chair. I'm a bit sore with them because I had been on a protest response team for years as a University Staff representative, so I applied to be an Academic Staff representative, since the position was open... and they didn't choose me. In the evening I had yet another meeting, for our condo board.

Today I worked from home and had two meetings this morning, and in fact someone tried to put yet another meeting on my calendar at the same time as those two. Travalon and I walked on Governor's Island at lunch, and after work I went to Adoration as usual. I led Night Prayer, as I often do on Tuesdays, and today every regular showed up, so we had a baker's dozen of us. 

Here are the things Travalon got at Greek Fest on Saturday. The fish is a fridge magnet.


Our neighbors were just chilling out this morning.


Here are some photos from the boardwalk in DeForest that we walked on this past Sunday. It's right next to the Yahara River.





It's a long boardwalk, and it feels like you're in the jungle.

Travalon got a Hot Wheels car he had as a kid - it's from 1974 and is called Large Charge.


Here are some other photos Travalon sent me. A tree up by the monastery on Highway M is already changing colors, and this was last week!


While I was at Irish Fest, he went on road trips. Here's the Lafayette County Courthouse in Darlington.


This is the waterfall at Governor Dodge State Park.


This is Stewart Lake County Park in Mount Horeb, which I have never been to in all the times I've been to that town.


And this is Junk and Disorderly Antique Shop in Blanchardville.


Travalon went there when he visited Yellowstone Lake State Park.


As you can see, he didn't get bored while I was away fiddling and speaking in Irish.


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Sunday, September 7, 2025

Hopped Up on Tripita and Galactic Burritos

 

Sorry for the silence the last couple of days. Friday I crawled into bed at exactly 2 am, and yesterday I just wasted too much time and ran out of time to blog, so now you'll get a very long blog post. It starts with Friday, when I worked from home in the morning and then logged out and took a walk at Governor's Island with Travalon. I drove down to Cecil Markovitch's house, and then he, the Dairyman's Daughter, Richard Bonomo, and I drove to Chicago. It was a fine drive until we hit the Chicago traffic, then yikes! We went to Tutto Fresco, the same Italian restaurant we went to last time we'd gone to a show at the Athaeneum, and I ordered a half-order of seafood linguine but still had to put half in the cooler Cecil keeps in his car. (Unlike Travalon and me, who keep buying coolers because we keep forgetting to bring one with us... but this did come in handy when our fridge died, plus I wrote an article about our dead fridge that got published in Guidepost, which was a bucket list item of mine. But I digress.) Cecil was texting the Single B-Boy, saying he got a Caesar salad with three anchovies on it, and the B-Boy said, "That's three anchovies too many." Then Cecil tried to order an espresso after dinner, but they said the machine was broken, and Cecil said that was a running joke between him and the B-Boy, that half the places said their espresso machines were broken, so he texted him about that. Only it autocorrected a word, so he tried to correct it but sent the text and accidentally turned on voice-to-text, so it was writing a text that said, "Oh shoot! It's writing everything I say! Good thing I said shoot. What if it did this while I was at confession and then sent my sins to all my contacts?" And then he decided, what the hey, he'd send that text to the B-Boy too. Which reminds me, earlier in the day I was emailing a faculty member, and for some reason Outlook changed haven't to 'aven't, so apparently my email program thinks I'm Cockney.

We thought we were going to see a concert put on by the Sistine Chapel Choir, but it was actually part lecture given by a woman who writes art commentary for Magnificat magazine about the art in the Sistine Chapel, and part concert of music sung in the Sistine Chapel by a small subset of the choir, about five guys. (I know, this just happened, but for the life of me I can't remember if there were five or six.) The last piece was the Allegri "Miserere," the setting of Psalm 51 that was only sung in the Sistine Chapel until a teenage Mozart transcribed it. The lecturer said the punishment for transcribing it was excommunication, but the Pope was so fascinated that a 14-year-old had done it that instead he wanted to meet Mozart, "and that," she quipped, "is one way to get a papal audience." (She was very funny.) After that, the piece was out in the world, and I've sung it myself, but I've only ever heard women or boys hit the high C. To my surprise, one of the grown men in this group was able to do it. It's a breathtaking moment. They could have left things there, but they said they didn't want to leave us on a somber note, so they were going to sing "O Sacrum Convivium." They didn't say by whom, so of course my mind immediately went to the Tallis version that I love so much... and in this I was to be deeply disappointed. Whatever they sang, it was... fine, but it wasn't Tallis. Then we drove home from Chicago, and I got into bed at exactly 2 am.

Yesterday Travalon (who had gone to a high school football game Friday night) and I met Cecil at Greek Fest, at the local Greek Orthodox church. I will say that I am Orthodox-curious and just love the St. John Chrysostom liturgy, which I know you can get at an actual Catholic church, but not around here. My goals were simple: eat tripita and galactoboureko and drink Greek coffee. We weren't going to eat lunch because we were meeting Tiffy in New Glarus for her (early) birthday lunch, but Cecil was planning to have a whole meal at the Fest. However, when we went to get the tripita (which is basically feta cheese in phyllo dough in little triangles), the guy said only one tripita comes per order, so we ordered two. Then they gave us one order of tripita and one of spanakopita, so we had to return that and get another tripita... and then they had four little triangles in each order, which was way more than we needed. When Cecil arrived, we offered him tripita, and then we all went downstairs to get "galactic burritos" and Greek coffee, and he also got the thing that looks like baklava but shredded, and then he was too full for lunch. They also had a little market downstairs, and I couldn't decide between the big prayer beads for $20 or the little ones for $10, but then I saw a Niko bag for $10, so the little prayer beads it was.


After all that tripita, I ate two bites of "galactic burrito" and was done, but then I couldn't close the container. A woman was going by with a whole cart full of galactic burritos, so I figured she could help me, but she couldn't either. She put it in a bag and tied it tightly so it wouldn't open. I will say that they had SO MANY galactic burritos there because that must be what people want. I mean, you can get baklava all over, but Greek Fest (and the church's bake sale in November) is the only place I've seen galactic burritos. My Greek coworker says they're easy to make: "Just make a simple custard and then use frozen phyllo dough." I understand the second part, but that first part... what?? She might as well have told me, "It's so simple, you just build a nuclear reactor." And what is that opposed to, a complex custard? The mind boggles.

Then Travalon and I drove down to New Glarus, and I was so full of sugar and caffeine and fat that I was making up random songs and babbling about any random thing that popped into my head. We met Tiffy at Glarner Stube, a Swiss restaurant that Cecil said has the largest urinal in the Midwest. Whether that's true, I can't say, but the place does have two bathrooms that are marked unisex, and the one I went into did have a very large urinal in it. Here is a photo, courtesy of Travalon.


I was too full to eat a lot, so I had a cup of mushroom soup and then a couple bites of Travalon's savory puff pastry dish and a couple bites of Tiffy's schnitzel and a couple bites of the roesti, which is basically hash browns with Swiss cheese, and a couple bites of red cabbage. So really a great Swiss sampler platter. After lunch we went to Tiffy's sister's house in Monroe, which was shockingly nostalgic for me, because I remembered playing with her nieces there when they were little girls, and now they're pushing thirty. They were not there, but Karl the Chocolate Lab was (Tiffy was dog sitting), so we played with him. He's old and graying now, but he still loves playing fetch. Then Travalon and I went to Baumgartner's for cheese sandwiches, and I tried Limburger cheese for the first time. It was not nearly as stinky as I'd been led to believe. We couldn't talk Tiffy into joining us. 

Today at Mass we sang a hymn to the tune of "Slane" for our opening hymn, then Travalon and I stopped by the coffee shop on North Street, as is becoming our habit after Mass. Because of the Iron Man Triathlon, we didn't want to go anywhere near downtown, so we headed north of town, to the boardwalk in DeForest. To our surprise, the path into the woods is closed off now, so that's a disappointment. Then we went to the East Side Club to hear the Prairie Flowers at three... only the email had the time wrong, and they had started at one, so they were just packing up when we got there. Inside there was a Packer watch party, but it was too nice out, so we just sat by the lake. I do still love the Packers, but I always take a while to adjust to football season. Anyway, they beat the Lions. 

You will be shocked to hear that there was more band drama. I wanted to go to the Irish slow session, but our leader wasn't happy about this. She said I was only allowed to go to the second Irish slow session in the month, not the first one. That annoyed me, and anyway I didn't want to fight with Iron Man road closures on the way to the other end of town, so I said forget it, I'm going to the Irish session. Our bass player came too, but at first neither my Irish teacher Famie nor the red-headed flute player were there, and then I thought hmm, maybe I skipped band practice for nothing. They mentioned the flute player was sick with possibly COVID, so while she didn't feel that bad, she decided to stay home and not infect us, and then Famie arrived a little late. During the break, she, the bass player, and I were chatting when Hardingfele sent me a text that she was skipping band practice, so that means there were only the guitarist and two fiddles, which is enough for practice but we'll probably get a pissed-off email about how we need to take practice more seriously. The flute player had prepared a playlist for us of tunes commonly played at sessions, and I noticed "Slane" was on it, but we didn't play it. However, I did sing it for the hymn during Night Prayer, because it was the evening hymn in Magnificat for Thursday, and I was going to sing it then, but someone else had a hymn they wanted to sing. Tonight they asked me to pick a hymn, so I said sure and sang "Slane." I sure do love that tune.

This has nothing to do with anything else, but my aunt who lives in Colorado sent this photo.


I can see why they live in Colorado!

Man, that was a lot of words. You'd think I was still hopped up on Greek coffee, tripita, and galactic burritos.


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Thursday, September 4, 2025

State Park Adventure Journal

 

Today I worked on campus, and it was a crazy day as far as meetings, people needing stuff, etc., but not too much exciting happened. A couple of times I held the elevator for a student who was only going up one floor, and one of them laid a SBD (Silent But Deadly) fart on the rest of us in the elevator before escaping one floor later, while we had to go up many floors. Thanks, dude. 

It's been cooler the last few days, and I hope my houseplants are still okay outside. I have the black calla lily, Lazarus the Dracaena, the ponytail palm, and the purple tradescantia still out there. I went into the bedroom to see if we can close the window with that mourning dove nest in the way, but the sturdy, perfect nest that supported two babies to adulthood is gone; just a few sticks remained, and they didn't get in the way of closing the window. The problem seems to have solved itself.

We had another quiet evening at home, so Travalon and I finished writing in the State Park Adventure Journal we got at Rib Mountain this past weekend. We have not been to many of the state trails, but we have been to most of the state parks. Travalon says he has been to all of them, but some (like Lizard Mound) he was at as a kid and barely remembers. There were some he had been to without me, and there were others that I knew better than he did, so the memories are a hodgepodge of our time together and our single days. We still have lots of empty pages in the Adventure Journal, and for every state park or trail there are four suggestions of things to do, most of which we haven't done, so we will keep the Adventure Journal in the car and try to see some of these places and do some of these things. Of course, some of them are not anything we'd do willingly. Winter camping? No thanks! Watching the sun rise from an overlook? If the weather is warm enough to be out at sunrise, then the sun is rising too early for me to be there watching it. That's just science. But I was intrigued by the accessible tandem kayak you can rent at Lake Kegonsa State Park - maybe we'll have to try that. I do remember years ago a bunch of us were piled into a huge canoe, so many of us (five?) that it almost sank, and we could barely paddle around Lake Kegonsa while another friend sailboarded around and around us. That was the Big Banana, a giant yellow canoe with brown spots on it, just like a banana, where it had been repaired. It died in a windstorm when it was blown into a tree, many years ago. Once Rich and Kathbert tried to paddle in it using little toy paddles, bright orange plastic ones, which didn't work so well. Or so I hear - I wasn't in the Big Banana to see how badly it went, I only heard about it after the fact, but it would have been a sight to see: a big yellow canoe and tiny orange paddles! Kind of like when Oregon played against Syracuse in a Final Four game, because Oregon has chartreuse uniforms and Syracuse has bright orange ones, so that was the most aesthetically pleasing college basketball game I ever saw. But I digress.


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