It's very late because we stayed up to watch the final episode of Colbert, but I did want to blog quickly tonight. Anna Banana II and I were going to go to the shrine in La Crosse to commemorate what would have been Pa Hat's 80th birthday today, since I know he has been to that shrine, but we were both tired and decided to go somewhere a little closer, Holy Hill. I lit a candle for Pa Hat and for Travalon's mom, then we went down to the St. Therese Chapel.
In the gift shop I bought a rosary (shocker!) and a T-shirt, using that $150 gift card I got through the wellness program at work. Then we drove back to her family cottage, and on the way we stopped at a rest stop with a "pet sauce walking area." Huh?
Then we took a walk from her cottage to the A-frame houses for old time's sake, and we passed this blooming tree.
It doesn't have a fragrance, but it's very beautiful, and my plant ID app says it's a "beauty tree."
Meanwhile, at work Travalon cannot escape Six Seven.
In the evening Travalon, Anna Banana II, Richard Bonomo, Jilly Moose, and I gathered at one of Pa Hat's favorite restaurants, the Essen Haus. Just a few months ago their bathrooms were just the same as they had been when I was in college, but today they were all modernized and not institutional and grungy, so when Rich said the restaurant isn't going to close after all, I wasn't surprised. Who would update bathrooms they hadn't bothered to update in at least thirty years if they were just going to get torn down to build yet more high-rise apartments? So that is some good news, at least. The waitress told us she couldn't sell us a whole chocolate cake, but she did bring us five pieces, each with its own candle.

When I tipped the small polka band (two accordions, one drummer, and endless corny jokes), they asked if I had any requests. I told them the sad story of how Pa Hat would have been eighty today but he died a couple of weeks ago, and they played a rousing polka version of "Happy Birthday" to Pa Hat. I had a very German dinner of jaegerschnitzel, potato pancake with applesauce, and red cabbage; however, the cake was not German chocolate but just basic chocolate. The pieces were so huge that we joked about how of course they couldn't have sold me a whole cake, it would be seven feet long and cost $238. Anyway, it seemed like a fitting tribute. I asked everyone's favorite memory of Pa Hat, and they all remembered his speech at my wedding to Travalon. If only someone had made a video...
So farewell to Pa Hat and to Colbert, who is not dead but was the only thing keeping me sane in this crazy time, besides Irish fiddle tunes. I'll just have to learn to live without the two of them.
Famous Hat