Today I worked from home and had a lot of meetings. Travalon and I walked on Governor's Island at lunch, and we saw these cute mushrooms.
Today I worked from home and had a lot of meetings. Travalon and I walked on Governor's Island at lunch, and we saw these cute mushrooms.
Today I worked on campus, and Hardingfele and I went for a walk at noon. As usual we complained about the new system, and then I asked her if she remembered a gig we had a couple of months before COVID hit, at a school gym. She didn't remember much about it, but I'd heard the caller thought it went terribly. I looked on this blog and there wasn't much about it, so I looked in my diary Mariah... and there wasn't much about it. We were scheduled to play for two hours and the kids lost interest after one hour, and that was all I said. Was there tension? I don't remember. Then Hardingfele said we did another gig with this caller, but it was one I couldn't go to, a Maypole celebration at the local German restaurant and our first gig during the pandemic. Since I wasn't there, I can't say anything at all about that one. Maybe I misunderstood about the caller being unhappy with us, because if she was, why would she have worked with us again?
After work Travalon picked me up, and we went to the Nitty Gritty for Jilly Moose's actual birthday. (The festivities keep going on and on, because on Saturday a whole bunch of them are going to a Badger football game.) We met Anna Banana II (who is back in town), Hockey Girl, and OK Cap there, and Jilly Moose of course, in a light-up tiara that said "50." Rich came later, and we ordered a cake for the table but could only eat half of it. The waitress led us in singing "Happy Birthday," but I threw everyone off when I tried to sing harmony at the end. Oops!
Jilly Moose asked me to write a poem for her 50th birthday, so here goes:
Happy birthday, Jilly Moose!
Now you’re the big five-oh!
You’re officially Over the Hill
Where nobody wants to go.
Our youth is all behind us,
But at least we’re not yet old.
At least we have a decade or so
Before we reach that age of gold.
I’ve been in this club a few years now
And I’ll say it’s not too bad.
The years I’ve spent within this decade
Have been the best I’ve ever had.
Now we can see the other side
Of the Hill, and it’s a great view!
So enjoy life on the far side,
And I hope this decade is good for you.
This poem is square, with sixteen lines, so our bass player would approve. It drives her crazy when we play a tune that isn't square, with sixteen lines. Hey! Maybe you could contra dance to this poem!
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It has not been an exciting two days for me. Yesterday I had asked for a substitute for Adoration, since they said I shouldn't drive for 24 hours, but then they said, "Yeah, you can drive." I worked from home (but remember nothing about it, so here's hoping I didn't royally screw something up), and by the end of the day I was like, "Nah, I'm not making it to Adoration." They prescribed nothing for me post-surgery, no antibiotics and no fancy painkillers, so I've just been alternating Tylenol and ibuprofen, and that only works for so long. (Especially the Tylenol.) I did manage to lead Night Prayer. Monday night I was weirdly hoarse, besides being exhausted, so I skipped Night Prayer. Did they have to intubate me? They didn't say anything about that, but today I looked at my discharge instructions online and noticed something that I hadn't seen on the paper version: they said to sleep sitting up or on my side because if I slept on my back, I could DIE. Travalon says he's pretty sure I slept on my side Monday night, and clearly I didn't die, so it's all good, but yikes!
Today I felt very lightheaded and worked from home. I did get a lot done at work, and it's probably higher quality than whatever I did yesterday. There were two things going on tonight, a Halfway to St. Paddy's Day Hooley and a ukulele strum, but I didn't do either one. Travalon and I did take a very gentle walk on Governor's Island, and I took another walk outside later, but boy is it hot out! Tomorrow should be better (judging by when I had the same surgery eight years ago, but then again I was eight years younger and more resilient), so I fully plan to be on campus.
I am alarmed by how all the comedians who mock Dear Leader are getting canceled, first my guy Colbert and now Jimmy Kimmel. (As someone said, "Silly Jimmy, you should have just said we should kill all the homeless and then you wouldn't have been fired," like that idiot at FAUX News who somehow still has a job.) Silencing dissenting voices is right from the fascist playbook, and then people who support Dear Leader are all like, "I never see you anymore. Why don't you come over? I have lawn darts." Yes, and you also support this regime. Someday these people will be on the wrong side of history, but it sucks living through it. Now I know how the White Rose people felt. Or as this German guy posted, "Please explain this to me - a Republican shot another Republican, and now all the Republicans want to kill the Democrats?" They were just looking for some excuse anyway. Don't sit here and "other" me and say all my kind are possessed by Satan and should all be in jail and then wonder why I don't want to play lawn darts with you. Get real. I thought their side was the one that supposedly loved free speech and hated cancel culture, but we can see what a lie that was!
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I didn't do too much today, partly because I was fasting and partly because I had to scrub myself last night and then again this morning, so it seemed ill-advised to take a hike at Governor's Island, which is so dirty that I always have to wash my feet afterwards. Or maybe it didn't matter, because they still made me scrub myself down AGAIN when I got to the surgical suite. Anyway, the surgery went smoothly, I don't remember anything about it, and now I'm struggling to stay awake. Yes, I did skip the Moldy Jam jam tonight.
I do have big DuoLingo news, as promised yesterday:
Sorry for the long silence. Thursday I worked on campus and then had a Union meeting. Travalon picked me up, and then we went to St. Charles Station for their corn meal. The first course was elote, or street corn, then the next was corn chowder, then the biggest pork chop I'd ever seen with corn and mashed potatoes and greens, and then a corn cake for dessert with horchata whipped cream. Travalon just got the street corn and his favorite shrimp and grits, but he helped me eat all the other courses, and we brought most of the pork chop and some of the dessert home.
Friday I worked from home, then Travalon and I went to Breese Stevens Field to see Weird Al Yankovic. It was just as entertaining as you'd imagine, with lots of costume changes and a polka medley of recent hits and even some songs I'd forgotten about, like "Word Crimes." I loved the start with a power point song using business buzzwords, and the encore was a song about Star Wars set to "American Pie," followed by another song about Star Wars (Yoda, specifically) set to "Lola." So much fun!
Yesterday Travalon and I walked on Governor's Island, then we ran to the co-op, and that reminded us that the North Side Festival was going on, so we checked it out. We got gift bags with coffee and hot chocolate (yay!) and big jars of sauerkraut (huh?), and other random stuff like lip balm and, very helpfully, a can of sparkling water. We couldn't find the stand with the amazing lamb kebabs, but we found another one with beef and shrimp kebabs, and we already had a beverage. We bought a little stuffed guinea pig for us and a tie-dyed T-shirt for me. Then we drove to a farm outside of Verona for the Brazilian party, because I'd gotten an email saying the bluegrass band some of them play in would be playing at three. That turned out to be not completely true (or true at all), but they did start playing before 4:30. Not too many people were there at first, and Travalon wondered how they all knew that the email wasn't totally accurate.
We had to head back to Madison for my work picnic, where we sat by ourselves and only my former boss and one faculty member and her husband and very fluffy dog really interacted with us. None of the other support staff ever come, and I feel very awkward there, but my (former) boss begged me to come. For some reason our chair thinks we should name the new fridge arriving for the break room on our floor on Wednesday, since they named the fridge on the Slavic floor after him, so I suggested Nat King Cool, and Travalon suggested Rita Coolfridge. It's really supposed to be a contest for the grad students, but this has inspired us to name our own relatively new fridge Calvin Coolfridge.
After we felt like we'd put in a sufficient amount of time (around an hour) at the work picnic, Travalon and I headed back to the Brazilian party, where we hung out with the woman from my class mentioned previously on this blog who looks like she could survive three years in the wilderness, and her equally rugged husband. I wasn't far off, because they are wild animal rehabilitators, and she has had a fascinating life sailing on a research yacht north of the Arctic Circle, among other things. I was still full from the work picnic, and Travalon had to wait several hours to eat again because of an antibiotic, so we just watched the Brazilian dancers in a barn and listened to the steel drum band. The other student and I tried to swing on a tire swing when the children at the party tired of it, but we couldn't get it to spin like they did, so my buddy tried something that caused us both to fall off, but in a funny way, not like a dangerous way. We gave up, and besides it was close to the time that the Brazilian drums were going to lead us down to the beautiful, enormous bonfire.
Today I went to Seabird's new office in my building, and one of her officemates had made cookies because tomorrow is another office mate's birthday. Apparently it was his first birthday when the terrorist attack happened - now I feel old. Seabird and I did walk at lunch, but I was sore and had to take the bus for the second half. I can't take ibuprofen before my procedure on Monday; I can take acetaminophen, and I did, but it never does anything. It would have to happen that my back hurts the one week I can't do anything about it, since I rarely take ibuprofen. Wonder what I did to it?
In the afternoon we had our big department meeting with everyone in person for the first time since the pandemic. We've been having hybrid meetings for years, so some faculty were grumbling about having to be in person. (We staff members have been in person since we could be.) One of the grad students told me that Charlie Kirk had been shot, and while I am no fan of the man, I was horrified. Now rumors are flying about the person who did it, but nobody has been caught, so they are just rumors. I find it rather disingenuous that right-wingers are accusing leftists of doing this, after years of saying leftists are gun-hating pacifist wimps. So which is it? I have my own opinions about who would have the most to gain from this, and it isn't the Left, but I will wait to see if they find the killer and learn a motive. All this political violence is terrifying, and from what I've seen the people on the left are horrified, much more so than the people on the right were when that legislator from Minnesota was assassinated along with her husband. It is a bit haunting to hear Charlie Kirk say not too long ago that a few gun deaths are the price we have to pay as a society for our right to own guns - I suppose he never thought he'd be one of those deaths, but violent rhetoric begets violence. Where does this all end? Nowhere good, I'm afraid.
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Yesterday I worked on campus and met the Professor Formerly Known as Lute Player for lunch. In the afternoon I went to my first Academic Staff Assembly meeting. It was more high-tech than the University Staff Congress; for example, we had to swipe our ID card to sign in, whereas the other one just had a piece of paper with your district number on it, and if that piece of paper was missing, it was assumed that you had taken it. That's how they took attendance. I was there for two reasons: the chairs of the committee I was on to do a report on ageism in the university gave their presentation of our final report, and I volunteered to be the alternate for my district, since we have a representative but no alternate. The Assembly seems more female and clean-cut than the Congress, and the weird thing is that their executive committee sat at the front, facing us like a row of mean girls in the high school cafeteria. There were also a lot more of them than there were on the Central Committee, of which I was Vice Chair. I'm a bit sore with them because I had been on a protest response team for years as a University Staff representative, so I applied to be an Academic Staff representative, since the position was open... and they didn't choose me. In the evening I had yet another meeting, for our condo board.
Today I worked from home and had two meetings this morning, and in fact someone tried to put yet another meeting on my calendar at the same time as those two. Travalon and I walked on Governor's Island at lunch, and after work I went to Adoration as usual. I led Night Prayer, as I often do on Tuesdays, and today every regular showed up, so we had a baker's dozen of us.
Here are the things Travalon got at Greek Fest on Saturday. The fish is a fridge magnet.
Sorry for the silence the last couple of days. Friday I crawled into bed at exactly 2 am, and yesterday I just wasted too much time and ran out of time to blog, so now you'll get a very long blog post. It starts with Friday, when I worked from home in the morning and then logged out and took a walk at Governor's Island with Travalon. I drove down to Cecil Markovitch's house, and then he, the Dairyman's Daughter, Richard Bonomo, and I drove to Chicago. It was a fine drive until we hit the Chicago traffic, then yikes! We went to Tutto Fresco, the same Italian restaurant we went to last time we'd gone to a show at the Athaeneum, and I ordered a half-order of seafood linguine but still had to put half in the cooler Cecil keeps in his car. (Unlike Travalon and me, who keep buying coolers because we keep forgetting to bring one with us... but this did come in handy when our fridge died, plus I wrote an article about our dead fridge that got published in Guidepost, which was a bucket list item of mine. But I digress.) Cecil was texting the Single B-Boy, saying he got a Caesar salad with three anchovies on it, and the B-Boy said, "That's three anchovies too many." Then Cecil tried to order an espresso after dinner, but they said the machine was broken, and Cecil said that was a running joke between him and the B-Boy, that half the places said their espresso machines were broken, so he texted him about that. Only it autocorrected a word, so he tried to correct it but sent the text and accidentally turned on voice-to-text, so it was writing a text that said, "Oh shoot! It's writing everything I say! Good thing I said shoot. What if it did this while I was at confession and then sent my sins to all my contacts?" And then he decided, what the hey, he'd send that text to the B-Boy too. Which reminds me, earlier in the day I was emailing a faculty member, and for some reason Outlook changed haven't to 'aven't, so apparently my email program thinks I'm Cockney.
We thought we were going to see a concert put on by the Sistine Chapel Choir, but it was actually part lecture given by a woman who writes art commentary for Magnificat magazine about the art in the Sistine Chapel, and part concert of music sung in the Sistine Chapel by a small subset of the choir, about five guys. (I know, this just happened, but for the life of me I can't remember if there were five or six.) The last piece was the Allegri "Miserere," the setting of Psalm 51 that was only sung in the Sistine Chapel until a teenage Mozart transcribed it. The lecturer said the punishment for transcribing it was excommunication, but the Pope was so fascinated that a 14-year-old had done it that instead he wanted to meet Mozart, "and that," she quipped, "is one way to get a papal audience." (She was very funny.) After that, the piece was out in the world, and I've sung it myself, but I've only ever heard women or boys hit the high C. To my surprise, one of the grown men in this group was able to do it. It's a breathtaking moment. They could have left things there, but they said they didn't want to leave us on a somber note, so they were going to sing "O Sacrum Convivium." They didn't say by whom, so of course my mind immediately went to the Tallis version that I love so much... and in this I was to be deeply disappointed. Whatever they sang, it was... fine, but it wasn't Tallis. Then we drove home from Chicago, and I got into bed at exactly 2 am.
Yesterday Travalon (who had gone to a high school football game Friday night) and I met Cecil at Greek Fest, at the local Greek Orthodox church. I will say that I am Orthodox-curious and just love the St. John Chrysostom liturgy, which I know you can get at an actual Catholic church, but not around here. My goals were simple: eat tripita and galactoboureko and drink Greek coffee. We weren't going to eat lunch because we were meeting Tiffy in New Glarus for her (early) birthday lunch, but Cecil was planning to have a whole meal at the Fest. However, when we went to get the tripita (which is basically feta cheese in phyllo dough in little triangles), the guy said only one tripita comes per order, so we ordered two. Then they gave us one order of tripita and one of spanakopita, so we had to return that and get another tripita... and then they had four little triangles in each order, which was way more than we needed. When Cecil arrived, we offered him tripita, and then we all went downstairs to get "galactic burritos" and Greek coffee, and he also got the thing that looks like baklava but shredded, and then he was too full for lunch. They also had a little market downstairs, and I couldn't decide between the big prayer beads for $20 or the little ones for $10, but then I saw a Niko bag for $10, so the little prayer beads it was.
Today I worked on campus, and it was a crazy day as far as meetings, people needing stuff, etc., but not too much exciting happened. A couple of times I held the elevator for a student who was only going up one floor, and one of them laid a SBD (Silent But Deadly) fart on the rest of us in the elevator before escaping one floor later, while we had to go up many floors. Thanks, dude.
It's been cooler the last few days, and I hope my houseplants are still okay outside. I have the black calla lily, Lazarus the Dracaena, the ponytail palm, and the purple tradescantia still out there. I went into the bedroom to see if we can close the window with that mourning dove nest in the way, but the sturdy, perfect nest that supported two babies to adulthood is gone; just a few sticks remained, and they didn't get in the way of closing the window. The problem seems to have solved itself.
We had another quiet evening at home, so Travalon and I finished writing in the State Park Adventure Journal we got at Rib Mountain this past weekend. We have not been to many of the state trails, but we have been to most of the state parks. Travalon says he has been to all of them, but some (like Lizard Mound) he was at as a kid and barely remembers. There were some he had been to without me, and there were others that I knew better than he did, so the memories are a hodgepodge of our time together and our single days. We still have lots of empty pages in the Adventure Journal, and for every state park or trail there are four suggestions of things to do, most of which we haven't done, so we will keep the Adventure Journal in the car and try to see some of these places and do some of these things. Of course, some of them are not anything we'd do willingly. Winter camping? No thanks! Watching the sun rise from an overlook? If the weather is warm enough to be out at sunrise, then the sun is rising too early for me to be there watching it. That's just science. But I was intrigued by the accessible tandem kayak you can rent at Lake Kegonsa State Park - maybe we'll have to try that. I do remember years ago a bunch of us were piled into a huge canoe, so many of us (five?) that it almost sank, and we could barely paddle around Lake Kegonsa while another friend sailboarded around and around us. That was the Big Banana, a giant yellow canoe with brown spots on it, just like a banana, where it had been repaired. It died in a windstorm when it was blown into a tree, many years ago. Once Rich and Kathbert tried to paddle in it using little toy paddles, bright orange plastic ones, which didn't work so well. Or so I hear - I wasn't in the Big Banana to see how badly it went, I only heard about it after the fact, but it would have been a sight to see: a big yellow canoe and tiny orange paddles! Kind of like when Oregon played against Syracuse in a Final Four game, because Oregon has chartreuse uniforms and Syracuse has bright orange ones, so that was the most aesthetically pleasing college basketball game I ever saw. But I digress.
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Today I worked on campus, and you know school is back in session when there's just so much more sugar around. All of us in the ARTs were assigned name tags, and I had to go pick mine up in another building, and on the way someone gave me a free granola bar. Then in the office where I picked it up, there were mini chocolate bars, so I took one. A coworker gave me a mini candy bar, and two colleagues came to my office to tell me that five floors above me were a bunch of treats. I took two kinds of cookies and an apple for later, and I also still have the granola bar, plus someone brought in pears, so I ate one. Oh, and our new chair gave me a biscotti (biscotto?). Just one.
Here are some more photos from our trip up North. First, a rock formation on top of Rib Mountain.
Today I worked from home, and at lunch Travalon and I took a walk on Governor's Island, where we saw the big party boat Midnight Splash full of people. First we heard it - the music was LOUD! We wondered who got Tuesday off to go on a boat, and I wondered if a restaurant was taking their workers for a boat ride, since some of them are closed on Tuesdays. That's kind of a wonderful thought. When I worked in the private sector, literally everyone but me who had worked on a project was invited to go on a Betty Lou Cruise, and working for the university, we don't go on corporate boat rides. I didn't mind just going with Travalon and/or a friend or two, so hopefully they start back up again.
Here are some photos from our trip up North. First, here we are on Rib Mountain.
More random than a rabbit on a B-17!